My 6 year old daughter came to me yesterday with her little ipod and a youtube video of a tap dancer. 

“Look at this” she said. She was excited about the tap dancers and the sounds their shoes made and how they could dance so fast.

“Are you going to tap dance?” I asked.

“Mom, I don’t have any tap shoes.”

“You don’t need tap shoes to dance.” I said.




This little conversation got me thinking. We think we need everything in place to dance. We think we need the right skills, the right circumstances, the right time, the right clients, the right plan. We need the exact tools to move ahead with a project, a business or even a goal.




And this belief that we need everything to be exact can hold us back.




I’ve done this many times. I needed skills I didn’t have yet. I needed the words that I just didn’t know how to say. I need the courage to start, but there were always reasons, always excuses and always one more thing I needed for everything to be just so.




I was waiting for my tap shoes before I started to dance. In reality we just need to dance, we just need to start, we need to begin.

I was afraid everyone would know all the mistakes i’ve made if I put myself out there. That someone those mistakes would be used against me.

I was afraid of what people would think when I started to say I do energy work and use my intuition to help others. What would they call me? Would the understand.

I was afraid to live my own life and dream my own dream. To make decisions and choices that may not seem “normal” and walk a path that seemed to derail from what everyone else thought I should take.

I was afraid.

But

Now

I’m

Not

I’ve come to realize that I’m not honoring God by not living to my full calling. I’m not honoring this life I’ve been giving to live it for someone else’s approval.

I understand the frustration, pain and stifling feeling far outweighs the fear of what everyone else might think.

I choose to live a fearless life full of love to the most mundane moment to the spectacular break throughs.

So that at the end of this life, I can say I live it fully and that I was not afraid.

I love using EFT because it really helps to slice through layers that we put on top of the core issues we need to work on and essentially let go. This video explains that concept.

I use muscle testing to determine your truths. This can be fairly revealing to you as you may think you believe something when your sub conscience doesn't. We can then also determine when shifts in your belief systems have been made.